If you've been a dedicated follower of this blog, you'll know that our writers at Topped Toys provide a delicious blend of inspiration, instruction, and toe-curlingly graphic experiences. More often than not, these stories are taken from the real lives of dedicated anal sluts, whose holes have been trained into the hungriest cunts around. Whether it's an intense review of one of our biggest muscle-wrecking challenges, or advice on stretching your limits and discovering just how much your body can accommodate, we talk a lot about the pleasures of being stuffed, crammed, gaped. I'm here to talk about the pleasure and excitement in topping, and giving bottoms what they - what you - most deserve.
As a top, there are few things more fun than watching a bottom - or their cunt - forced to react to my motions.
"But wait," I hear you typing, "What would I need a top for? I already have a fantastic collection of toys! I can spend an hour with my Hilt and know exactly how to get the best orgasms out of it." Well, that's great! (Be sure to tell us about your technique!) Solo play can be fantastic. But indulgence, when shared, can be more than doubled. And in my experience, the most intense and fulfilling (and full-filling) sex of my life has been working with a willing slut to get them completely wrecked. Of course, regular penetration is great: fingers, tongue, cock, following the whims of biological need. Tops with an arsenal of toys, though, can wreak absolute havoc on our partners.
One of the most important reasons for this: control. If you're used to fucking yourself a certain way, a certain speed, a certain depth, then having those choices taken away can be exhilarating enough on its own. Your top's hand on the base of your Mare Maker, tugging, twisting it inside you, in new and unpredictable rhythms. Your hole's twitching hunger as you beg for more, only for that Mordax to be fed into you with aching slowness, ridge by ridge. As a top, there are few things more fun than watching a bottom - or their cunt - forced to react to my motions. Face twisting in pent-up frustration as I hold back on giving them the knot of their new Hilt...only to watch that expression morph into drooling bliss when I finally plunge it home.
"Nobody's worked my cunt like that - I didn't even know that could feel so good."
With the best submissive bottoms, their body becomes totally enthralled to a top's whims. If you're a slut being worked over by a dedicated top, then your hole isn't just being fucked. It's being tugged on, tested, reshaped in real time into exactly the kind of sloppy, steaming vent your top desires. And if they're anything like me, then your top will be taking pride in every step of the process: a sculptor working your anal muscles like clay, dragging your insides into the most beautiful and obscene shapes. With the control (and your toys) in the hands of your top, your lust-addled mind is able to focus on everything else: the way your body responds to each touch, the pounding of your heartbeat, the rush of endorphins. You know your own routine, how to get yourself off. With a partner taking charge, pounding and stretching you in ways you couldn't achieve, finding new angles and depths to stimulate you, a climax could surge through you like a sudden roll of thunder from a clear sky. "Nobody's worked my cunt like that - I didn't even know that could feel so good." That kind of discovery, having new parts of your sensuality activated by your top, can never be unlearned.
As with any power exchange, it's essential to establish some rules beforehand, and as tops we have a responsibility to listen to our bottoms and their bodies. Communication is key here, and it can be as simple as asking "You good?" here and there in between grunts and growls and "Take it to the fucking hilt, you depraved anal whore". Nonverbal signals are especially useful when our bottoms are deep enough in subspace or overwhelmed by physical sensation. See, bottoms, even if you're being treated as little more than a juicy hole, we've gotta look out for you.
Of course, this brief exploration is only a taste of the ways you and your top can find pleasure with toys. I hope at least this has illustrated how amazing it can be to share your hole and the toys it loves. Maybe you'll be inspired to take charge yourself, and give someone else the kind of hole-wreckage you crave. Here at Topped Toys, we're all about expanding your mind to new experiences.
